The Order of Wedding Speeches
I will try to keep this post short and to the point. People often wonder what the right order of wedding speeches is. And sometimes they even if any such order actually exist. Well, there is indeed a tradition of wedding speech that is followed by majority of the families living in a particular country or region. Such traditions or customs have been developed wedding ceremonial rituals practiced by the people through the ages. And as I said it depends from region to region rather than family to family. Two families living in Florida would probably follow similar wedding customs (unless they or their ancestors are from different countries) but it would be different from an Irish family living in Ireland.
Nevertheless, let us adhere to the most common tradition which is practiced by most of the families. If we assume that there are four people (the groom, the father of the bride the best man and the maid of honor) who are going to deliver their respective wedding speeches, the most orthodox wedding speech order could be something like the following.
- The father of the bride gives his father of the bride speech. He is the one to speak first.
- The groom then delivers his groom speech which is formal in nature.
- The best man speech is probably the most entertaining of them all and is delivered the best man.
- The maid of honor speech is the last in the serious and is quite similar to best man speeches in nature.
However, apart from the above mention speeches there could be a few more people who may like to speak or are expected to speak in absence of one or more persons mentioned. They could be the father or mother of the groom, mother of the bride or even the bride. Sometimes somebody from the family or friends could also offer to deliver their speech. You must discuss well in advance how to accommodate them and make the final order of wedding speech accordingly.
